How to Speak to People About This Subject - 8/29/23
Ok, so as you guys have seen, I have started doing the debates on YouTube. The reason being is to show you guys some live examples of how you can take even a hostile person and (possibly) sway them.
I want to break down some of the things that I do in greater detail so that you can understand my thinking process and become more successful in what you’re trying to do (I know that wanting to tell people about this and failing miserably can be REALLY PAINFUL):
1. HAVE ONE FOOT OUT THE DOOR AT ALL TIMES
What I mean by this is most people naturally get “sucked in” to someone who is not willing to listen. Meaning you get more and more upset and frantic. You need to always have one foot out the door, meaning you need to be ready to leave at any second. The person in front of you does not deserve your time if you are not experiencing the person actually being receptive to the communication.
2. DON’T BRING IT UP UNLESS SOMETHING PROMPTS IT
Most people don’t want to hear about this shit out of nowhere, to be honest. You want to wait until there is SOME kind of indication that the person is ready to hear it or could benefit. And don’t go all ultra intense on them but just give them a little bit. Lead them on with a bit of info and see if they are interested in hearing more. Don’t just vomit all over them. Things like tax problems, money problems, government complaints… these are good indications of a green light. Also, in dating situations where the other person really likes you and you want something to talk about. But don’t vomit all over them. Take it easy and give them bite-sized chunks and make it fun to hear about it.
3. MAKE IT FUN
There’s so much bullshit everywhere. Media channels, social media, etc. Most people just want to get away from any information that will make their life harder because they are simply overwhelmed. Make it fun and SHOW THEM THE BENEFITS OF DOING THIS. Will they make more money? Be more free? In the context of their own life, what do they have to gain? Make that the focus of the conversation and you will have more success.
4. SIGN THEM UP FOR THE FREE CONTRACT KILLER COURSE
It’s pretty easy for you to simply sign them up for the course. You don’t really even need to say shit. Just have them signup and let the email campaign that comes every day do all the work.
5. DON’T PUSH PAST A GOOD POINT OR A BAD POINT
If you hit a point where things are good, like if they want to do the course and sign up, don’t push and force yourself too far beyond that point. Give them some time to digest the information. Same goes for if they are not enjoying the conversation… simply drop it. There is no point in creating an uphill battle for yourself. If someone is irritated about you talking about this stuff, the train flew off the tracks way before that point and you didn’t notice it.
6. REALIZE THAT PEOPLE ARE ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED
Most people are simply terrified… there is no simpler way of saying it. You are just going to have to work with that and accept it. You can often just plant a seed with them that will, at some point in time, possibly grow into a plant. But you can’t force people to look at this information and the harder you try, the worse things might get for you.
7. KEEP YOUR TRUSTEE HAT ON
It’s hard to fight with someone who is trying to benefit you. Just make sure you keep in mind that, when you are trying to tell someone about this, YOU ARE ALWAYS THE TRUSTEE AND THEY ARE THE BENEFICIARY. So if you start getting mad or upset, that violates the trust. Just try your best to benefit them and, if they aren’t receptive, simply be willing to walk away with a smile. There are a LOT of people who want to hear about this. There are no lack of people that want to hear it. So don’t waste time on people who don’t.
